A guide to dating in Singapore

Regardless of whether you're an introvert or an extrovert, dating can be incredibly daunting. You'd think that meeting someone special would be easier with all of our technology, but in fact, it's more challenging. 


Dating sites have replaced the days of meeting someone at a bar or through friends, and while some people can still meet others organically, many find that dating apps are the best way to find someone to share their life with. 


If you're living in Singapore, then you'll be aware of the incredible diversity the country offers. But even though there are millions of people, it's still challenging to make lasting connections. 


Why Are Dating Apps the Answer? 


With so many dating apps available, it's easy to see why it might be confusing to learn that people find the search for love so tricky. Common problems you might encounter include: 


Catfishing


Catfishing is where people pretend to be someone they're not. This could be in many forms, including men pretending to be women, people using someone else's photographs, lying about their age, or using photos 10 to 15 years younger. 


Most people in their life experience catfishing, and it's a worry for anyone who tries online dating. The fact is, dating apps can introduce you to a broader range of people, but it also allows others to be someone they're not. 


Ghosting 


Another common problem people face is ghosting. Apps such as Tinder have high rates of ghosting because people don't take dating seriously. For example, Tinder is about swiping on people based on how you feel about their physical experience. 


Just because a person joins Tinder, it doesn't mean they're looking for anything serious. Apps such as this are perfect places for someone to get an ego boost or a casual meeting with a person they have no intention of seeing again. 


Imagine you've been talking to someone for a while. You might have met one another or just be swapping messages, then suddenly that person stops replying. They might even block you on What's App or ignore your phone calls. Those of us who've experienced this unpleasant occurrence call it ghosting. 


Why do people do it? Because it's so easy. Online communication leaves many people feeling that they don't have to maintain common courtesies, which means they behave in ways they wouldn't dream of in person. 


So Why Use Dating Apps? 


Ghosting is a difficult thing to deal with, but it's a part of online dating, and it makes you stronger. There will come a time where you meet someone, and your communication progresses into a serious relationship. When this happens, it will be worth all of the letdowns! 


The fact is, dating apps open up a world of opportunities for people of all ages, genders and sexual persuasions. Choosing the right dating site can be the difference between being a long-term single or enjoying a rewarding relationship with someone. 


There are many dating apps to choose from, but Lovestruck offers more than the average online dating experience. Did you know that Singapore has around 6 million people, which means that while there are plenty of opportunities to meet someone, there's also a lot of competition! 


Your average dating app caters for the masses but doesn't take vital factors into account, including your individuality. Lovestruck offers a range of convenient packages to suit your needs. 


Whether you're new to the dating scene, want support from expert matchmakers or would like to try speed dating, you can do it all with Lovestruck. 


What's The Dating Game Like in Singapore?

Singapore has a unique culture, being that it is an Asian country with a strong Western influence. Everyone knows that Asian countries have a strong work ethic and take academic achievement very seriously, and that's no different with Singapore. 


Yet, the Westernised culture often means that conservative Singapore families and more relaxed individuals can clash in values such as whether emotional happiness or academic achievement is more important. 


It's no surprise that getting good grades leads to better prospects and successful careers, so academic and professional achievement is a big part of what makes someone a catch in the Singapore dating game. 


But old fashioned views often place too much emphasis on a person's social standing. The countries mix of Western culture means more Singapore women judge a potential match on numerous factors and not just the security they'll receive. 


Following these tips will give you the best chance of dating success in Singapore. 


Sort Yourself Out Professionally 


By no means do you need a high-powered career, but it's good to have a job and let people know that you possess a strong work ethic. Nobody wants to be with someone that can't support themselves, so start as you mean to go on. 


If you don't have a job, it's probably best to wait to join a dating app. You can quickly meet someone, but most will want to know you can maintain a long-term relationship. 


Decide What You Want 


The best thing about living in Singapore is the diverse culture, which means there are plenty of places to meet people. While you don't need to want a long-term relationship, it's good to evaluate where you're at emotionally and consider the type of relationship you'd like to find. 


Show Your Personality 


Singapore is a business hub, which means plenty of people come and go. It can be challenging for professionals that live in the country to stand out and even more difficult to be taken seriously. 


You mustn't be afraid to show your personality and let people know you're looking for something serious. Be more than your job, and you'll be likely to attract the right kind of people. 


Setting Up a Dating Profile 


Why is it that we can create a CV, write cover letters, give business presentations and impress a panel of people at interviews but we panic at the thought of creating a dating profile? 


Everyone does it because you have to put yourself out there and show your personality. The fact is, it's hard to create a dating profile, but you can do it. 


The most important thing to remember is you should present yourself in the best light but not exaggerate your personality or accomplishments. 


Let's take a look at the best dating profile tips from our Lovestruck coaches. 


Writing your description


Writing a dating profile description is scary, but your success on dating apps depends on how you portray yourself to others. Online dating is about highlighting your personality and hoping someone out there will see what makes you unique. 


Most people know that perfect doesn't exist, so it's best, to be honest about who you are, what you're about and present realistic expectations of what you can offer as a potential partner. 


For example, you might not have a glamorous job, but it could be a stable career that enables you to indulge in your many hobbies and enjoy regular vacations. 


It's essential to be truthful in your profile because you're more likely to meet someone special. A passion for collecting puzzles might not be everyone's idea of fun, but there could be someone out there that sees your profile and shares the same interest. 


Remember the following points: 


  • Be engaging but honest. 
  • Don't be afraid to list your unique interests. 
  • Explain what you're looking for. 


Choosing the Right Photograph


Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, which is excellent for the average person to know because nobody will be everyone's type. Even the likes of Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie aren't attractive to the whole world, which means there's no reason that you shouldn't choose photographs that will provide people with a realistic representation of what you look like. 


One of the worst things anyone can do is edit their photographs to make themselves look younger or thinner. Catfishing is a real issue, and it doesn't just refer to people pretending to be someone else. 


There are so many photo editing applications around, and while adding a bit of makeup to your photo isn't an issue, you should never alter your physical features, including: 


  • Changing the shape of your nose. 
  • Altering your jawline. 
  • Thinning your face. 
  • Changing your eye colour.


Instead of focusing on editing software, think about choosing the right photos and showcasing your personality. 


It's a known fact that smiling photos receive more attention on dating apps than pouting shots, so think about the kind of people you want to attract and display that in your photographs. 


You don't need to look like a model or footballer, but you should always include a full-body shot, so people know what you look like. Not everyone wants someone with a perfect body, so while it might feel scary to put yourself out there when you don't have a toned frame, you'll present a realistic view of yourself. 


Turning a Potential Match into a First Date

We're guessing that your main goal with a dating app is to improve your love life and get more dates. It might surprise you to learn that one of the most complex aspects of online dating is turning a match into a first date.

There are many reasons as to why your potential match might be unenthusiastic about meeting in person, but once you put yourself in their shoes, you're more likely to find love.

It's helpful to ask yourself the following questions:

Is my profile complete?

If women feel that something isn't quite right, they're not going to meet you. Incomplete profiles with minimal information don't create the right impression, so ensure everything from your "about me" section and other aspects of your profile contain the correct information.

Am I giving off the right vibe?

Nobody likes the desperate approach, so try to keep your expectations in check. For example, online dating is a great way to make friends, and those connections could meet more people for dates.


Try not to be too desperate and focus on building connections with women and even men in Singapore.

Can I carry a meaningful conversation?

One of the most critical parts of securing a date with the other person is showing them that you're capable of carrying a meaningful conversation. Nobody wants to waste their time on a first date if you show no personality through the dating app.


Remember that talking online is different to meeting in person, so to ensure someone accepts your invitation for a first date, make sure you come across as a cool person, and you'll have more success.

Best First Date Ideas in Singapore

Deciding where to go on a first date can be challenging, and Singapore is a country with so many incredible options available. You could reach out to friends with successful dating lives and ask them where they take people.


It would help if you also considered the other party in your decision. For example, Singaporean women expect any man they're dating to have a good job, but most women are fiercely independent and wish to be treated equally.

Bars & Restaurants

You can't go wrong with bars and cafes, because they provide an excellent way to have a conversation and get to know your date. Here are some of our favourite bars that any guy or girl will love.

Holey Moley 

What can be better than combining crazy golf with alcohol? Holey Moley does just that, and we love its cool vibe. With a great atmosphere, dozens of holes for you to show off your skills and a food and drinks menu, Holey Moley is a fantastic idea.

Manhattan 

Doing just what you'd expect it to do, Manhattan gives you an authentic New York cocktail bar experience. With a selection of high-class drinks, it's the perfect way to turn meeting a stranger into a potential relationship.

Caffe Fernet 

If you'd prefer a casual date with the opportunity to enjoy a gorgeous view, head to Caffe Fernet for fantastic food, cocktails and side by side seating which is perfect for intimate conversations.


Walk a Nature Trail

If your match enjoys nature, then going on a beautiful walk is an excellent way to bring a bit of romance to a first date. You can talk while you walk and share interests.

Sungei Buloh Wetland Reserve

You can't sample better nature in Singapore than at the Sungei Buloh Wetland Reserve. With 130 hectares of scenic paths to hike and an impressive collection of migratory birds to view, it could be a perfect day out.

Visit a Wildlife Sanctuary

Almost everyone enjoys visiting wildlife sanctuaries, and it can be a fabulous date. You can spend time with the animals, and have fun while getting to know each other.


It's always best to save seeing a movie or listening to music for a second date because the best way to impress Singaporean women is through conversation.

Singapore River Safari 

The first river-themed safari park in Singapore features an impressive range of river-dwelling animals. You'll have a fine day out and see a bunch of incredible animals, including manatees and Mekong giant catfish.

Night Safari 

The perfect way to spend a romantic evening in Singapore, Night Safari is a wildlife conversation park dedicated to nocturnal animals. You'll see fishing cats, bantengs, and elephants. There's also an incredible dining experience to enjoy.


Unique Date Ideas

Headrock VR 

Tech lovers know that it's all about VR, and there are plenty of great spaces to get hands-on with the latest offerings. Headrock VR allows you to enjoy an immersive experience, which includes rides and a horror room.

K Bowling Club 

K Bowling Club is the first cosmic themed alley in Singapore, and it has quite a romantic feel. Once you finish your bowling game, you can hit the arcade, which has traditional games and a darts section. Then why not complete the evening with drinks and a casual dinner at the club's restaurant?

Visit the Bedok Reservoir Park

The Bedok Reservoir Park has plenty to do, but you can't miss out on the ninja warrior course that takes place in the trees. If you're not feeling like a daredevil, then there are nature trails to walk and the opportunity to rent dragon boats and kayaks if you fancy impressing your potential another half by showing off your rowing skills.


Are You Ready to Find Love?


One of the most successful initiatives in Singapore is the Social Development Network, which provides opportunities for singles to meet and develop meaningful connections. 


Today, dating apps can provide similar results, as long as you're willing to put yourself out there and talk to your match.


Lovestruck works under the Social Development Network guidelines to ensure we help people across Singapore find love. 


People choose our website because they know they can meet fantastic guys or wonderful woman for everything from fun dates to long-term relationships through our website.


We offer traditional online dating to speed dating events and professional matchmaking for people searching for marriage. We're confident that we'll help you to find success regardless of your dating age.


Feel free to contact our friendly team to learn more about how Lovestruck can help you find love. We offer regular tips and free advice on our website for both girls and guys to succeed in finding their perfect date in Singapore.


Contact our matchmakers through e-mail or our website. We look forward to getting you more friends, dates and perhaps even a dream marriage.





 




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